21 Life-Changing Days in My 20's

As the countdown to the big 3-0 is winding down (1 week, 2 days to be exact), I thought I'd, in chronological order, take a blog trip down memory lane on what has been my favorite decade yet!

1. January 1, 2000: I was so relieved y2k didn't kill anyone! Jason was working so I partied at home with my parents, Joanna and Grace :)

2. February 14, 2000: After a nice dinner at the Iron Horse Inn and a Hot fudge Sundae at Friches, Jason blindfolded me and drove me around Centerville for 30 min. or so....He stopped the car, led me into our church, walked me up on stage and asked me to dance as our friend Chris Mackintosh played a song on his guitar. The sanctuary was completely dark except for the spotlight shining down on us. When the song ended, he got down on one knee and asked me to make him the happiest man alive. I said yes and became the happiest woman alive.

3. June 30, 2000: Our wedding day! I wore a huge white tull dress with a corsette top... He wore a black tux with white vest...We promised our lives to each other in front of God, our families and about 300 guests...and I can't imagine life any other way...Jason not only has my heart, he is my heart...

4. March 5, 2001: The day my Grandpa Jerry passed away. It was so sad to say good-bye, but even sadder to watch my mom say good-bye. Her relationship with her dad was a true testament to God's faithfulness and healing.

5. May 31, 2001: We closed on our first house - a little bungalow in Kettering, Ohio - making us official adults.

6. July 27, 2001: My sister Elizabeth and Bryan's wedding day. I finally got a brother,and a great one at that!

7. September 11, 2001: A date we all won't forget, I know. A date that changed all of us and how we view the world...Seeing pictures still makes me teary-eyed....

8. Almost every Tueday 2001-2002: Eating at BW's with Elizabeth and Bryan for 25 cent wing night...great times....

9. September - December 2002: Interning for US Senator Mike DeWine - a great man with a huge heart!

10. December 2002: Graduated from Wright State with a BA in Political Science...Done. Awesome.

11. March 26, 2003: Jason, My Mom, Elizabeth and I drove home from Florida through the night to make it to my Pappaw's birthday party. Deep down we knew it was probably his last. Fun trip that included Elizabeth kicking my mom in the head in her sleep...well, sort of asleep....

12. June 15, 2003: The day my Pappaw died. My Mammaw, Dad, Mom, Uncles and cousins gathered around his hospital bed as they stopped the ventilator. We held his hand as he went to be with Jesus. Out of all the people I've lost in my life, I miss him the most. I can still hear his laugh and still think about calling him on election nights....

13. June 18, 2003: I began my career at Elizabeth's New Life Center not knowing how the women I worked with would be a measure of the woman I hope to be. Vivian, Rosie, Rachel, Heather and a host of others are amazing and I thank God for blessing me with their influence and friendship.

14. September 20, 2004: After wanting a baby for so long, God gave us the beautiful surprise of two faint lines on a home pregnancy test. I was at work and showed my friend Erica, who could barely see the lines with me...I went up stairs to the chapel and had a perfect moment of thanks to God that I will never forget.

15. May 30, 2005: The day Julia was born and I became a Momma. I remember the whole day vividly...Seeing and hearing her for the first time was heavenly.... She was beautiful and perfect and remains a light in my life...I love her....

16. December 29, 2006: Owen Robert Presher made his debut! Being a momma with my sister is amazing. I love that our kids get to grow up together! Griffin David came May 19 2009 adding to the fun!

17. July 28, 2007: We moved into our new house in Lebanon, Ohio. We spent a long time working on making a house we could grow in...We love it so much - not because of what it is, but because of what it holds together...our family...

18: Thanksgiving Day 2007: We had been wanting another child for some time, but were told for that month, it was not possible....Weeks went by after that appt. and I had this nagging feeling that "they" were wrong. So that morning, I took a pregnancy test and BAM! - two lines immediately...I about fell over...thankful for another life to love.

19. December 14, 2007: Joanna and Matt were married...another great man to add to the family.

20: June 28, 2008: Joshua Robert made me a mommy for the second time. Having a little cuddly, wonderfully squishy boy is amazing. He is such a gift and I feel so blessed to be in the front row of his life.

21. November 13, 2009: So this day hasn't happened yet...but I know it will be a day I won't forget. Saying good bye to the decade that made me a wife, a mom, and hopefully a better person is strange...I can't imagine the 30's beating this, but God is good and I can truly say I'm right where I want to be....

So bring it on! (((and for those of you who actually made it to the end of this, thanks!)))